Saturday, June 18, 2011

Do we need to dress up?

It sounds like more to woman, but it is sure that are we really need to dress up? Being beauty is synonym to women. Every time they went out, they’ll be dress up as they can for shop, meeting friends or attending functions. Even just to hang out with friends, some of the people will ask to themselves of housemate, “Am I okay with this cloth?” or “Am I beautiful like this?” There’s some general reason that women will give if we ask about this:

·         For self respect when we shown up among people.
·         To attract others.
·         Nature of woman, love to be beauty.

Three of this is correct, but I just want to highlight the second reason; to attract others. The first reason comes first, and then it will come with this second reason. But, who you want to attract?

For working purpose, it might be our boss. In some sector such as in salon or beauty center, to increase up the salary, to dress up is one of the requirement. In other sector, too fashionable usually not allowed.

To dress up when hanging out, there’s various answers we will have, who we want to attract? Some of the women will feel that it is wrong to wear the cloth that she wears last week. She feel ashamed, if others notify that it is same as before.  Some of them, also, dress up aiming to attract the guy that they fall to. But, most of the women dress up just because they don’t want others saying something bad about their attire.

Based on the research in London, actually women dress up well to attract other woman and heard a good respond from them. It is not really to attract man! When read this news, as others, I am surprised to know that. At the other side, it might be yes. That is because, woman knows woman better.

Personally, I’m not really care about to dress up because I’m not really care about what others will say, regarding to my attire. I am really concern about it only when I have presentation, or when I have to deal in my business. If it is just to hang out, or for shop, its not.
 In some views, when we share this view among married friends especially, they feel uneasy with the situation. The wives, normally, dress up whenever they want to go out with reason feel shameful to people outside if they’re not doing it. But when they’re at home, they will not dress up just because nobody looks at them. My view, our spouse will look at us at home. Sure we don’t want our spouse compare us with other woman outside, that we also look at them; that is of course well dressed.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Don’t be sad, tear off your tears




When you feel down, what is the first thing you will do or think? To feel sad and upset will come to us during the moment. It is normal in our life, everybody will face it but not at the same time.
Every time the feeling come, let it go, don’t keep it in your heart. Even if you fell want to cry, make it. When you feel ashamed to cry in front of others, have the personal time to have it. All the tears, actually can release your pressure. But, please let the sadness gone by with the tears . do not keep it, because the longer time you keep the sadness, the longer time you’re stressed.
After having this down time, its better to find someone to talk with.sure you have someone  that you believe; that can be shoulders to lean on, to be ears to listen to you.
Then, don’t forget to wake up. Wake up from the problem. Its faster, its better. Its no need to forger the upset feeling, use it as a lesson for the time to come.



Hush now don't you cry 
There will be a better day 
I promise you 
We can work it out
But only if you let me know 
What's on your mind 

Baby, you thought it was forever 
Through any kind of weather 

But some day you will find what you're searching for 

Try again 
Never stop believing 
Try again 
Don't give up on your love 
Stumble and fall 
Is the heart of it all 
When you fall down (down) 
Just try again 

Smile now, let it go 
Hey, you will never be alone 
I promise you 
If you can't fight the feeling (Oh yeah) 
Surrender in your heart 

Remember love will set you free 
Baby, you thought it was forever
You would always be together
But someday you will find what you're searching for 

Try again
Never stop believing
Try again
Don't give up on your love
Stumble and fall
Is the heart of it all
When you fall down (down)
Just try again

Baby, when a heart is crying 
Its sometimes feels like dying 
The tear drops fall like rain

Baby, you thought it was forever 
You would always be together 
But someday you will find what you're searching for

Try again (ooh yeah)
Never stop believing (oh no)
Try again
Don't give up on your love
Dont' give up on your love baby)

Try again
just try again)
Never stop believing
Try again
Don't give up on your love 

Stumble and fall
Is the heart of it all


When you fall down 
Just try again