bukan sekadar ilmu

Bukan sekadar ilmu

Proses kehidupan manusia, melalui proses belajar; sejak dalam kandungan ibu kita sebenarnya. Ketika kita belajar, bukan hanya ilmu itu kita dapat. Ilmu itu yang akan mempengaruhi tingkah laku kita.

Ambil motivasi dari bayi, bila ia belajar berjalan. Dari merangkak, bertatih sehingga berlari. Dalam proses ini, banyak kali jatuh dan bangun kembali tapi baginya, tidak boleh putus asa. Tetapi, apabila dewasa kita lupa naikkan semangat belajar etika bayi untuk tidak patah semangat. Sekali jatuh, jarang benar kita mahu bangun kembali.

Bagi saya, kita bertindakmengikut ilmu dan maklumat yang kita dapat. Contonhya jika kita tahu satu satu tempat itu bahaya, kita cuba elakkan tempat itu. Juga dalam pekerjaan kita, bila kita terpaksa lakukan sesuatu diluar kepakaran kita, semangat itu kurang.

Saya terperasan, orang yang berpengetahuan lebih, kadang kadang cerewet dalam kerja. Seperti kawan saya pernah cakap; “ bila kita tahu sikit, kita buat sikit. Tapi sekarang kita tau banya, banyak salah kita nampak.” Mungkin betul…

 Kawan,

Jangan berhenti untuk belajar benda baru. Kita akan tua jika tidak belajar. Belajar adalah satu proses bertesudan untuk hidup.

It is not just the knowledge

It is not just the knowledge

One of the human behavior or habit is keep learning, since we’re in our mum’s pregnancies actually. While we learn, it is not just the knowledge or skill, but how we will behave.

Take a motivation from a baby, when it starts to learn to walk. From crawl, it takes a move try to stand and moving. Within the process of learning, it may, and normally fall down till its feet become good to balance the body. But, when we grow up we forget this motivation to learn. Once we fall, we give up and don’t want to have another try.

My view, we will act based on our skill and information we gain. As example, we know that the place is danger, our react is, try not to be there.  Also, in our job, when we did not master the skill, the feeling is different compare to when we do the job that we have skill. The knowledge will influence our behavior.

Some people I meet, I realize that when we learn as high we can, make a different to our attitude, compare to when we were at the lower stage. As my friend said before, a higher learning person tends to be fussy because we know more. I feel that is right when I meet more people.

Guys,

Don’t stop to learn just because we are old. We become old because we stop to learn. Learning is a continuous process of living.

"...why me???..."

“Oh, my god. Why these kinds of fate come to me? Why me?”

Perhaps this quote came from us, when we face problems or bad news. Whatever it is, we can’t run away. But, how will we face it?

My dear,

Before solving any problem or to repair any situation, we need to accept it.

“But, how?”

We need to accept it, perhaps it will take a long time.

 Remember, my dear, God knows that we are strong enough for the fate. That’s why He gave it to us. Takes a moment to calm down, so you can get know the problems better. We need to know;

 What is happening, in facts.

The participant?

When, and how it start?

Why does it happen?

All these question, we know the answers. We know since the beginning, but normally we didn’t aware because at the early stage, it looks ok. It looks that everything is normal till at one time, it become out of our control.

“Then, what can I do?”

My dear, after we know the real situation, we will know what went wrong one-by-one. Why not you take a paper and list down all that?  Don’t hide the truth, it will not help.

If the problem is regarding people’s heart, start to ask their forgiveness. From our side, forgive them. Anger and revenge doesn’t make anything, it makes the problem worse.

If the problem is about our career, change what we can change. Perhaps we can take a class to upgrade our knowledge and skill. Unemployed people might need to update the CV and skills. Keep on moving is the key.

Come back to our religion. We feel uneasy when we have less security. Our religion is final answer for our heart’s security. Fix some time to the class, as example. Most of the religious centers nowadays have their community center, join it, perhaps as volunteered.